As a survivor of serious childhood abuse that went on from age 4 to 14 I know all too well the disease that is called “protecting the perpetrator” while going myself into deep 20,000 miles under the sea hiding. It’s all part of the absolute fear and terror of being with completely uncaring, selfish and actually evil people. Evil not in that they actually kill or whatever - but they kill the spirit of their own daughter because they think she is an object that belongs to them to do with as they please.

Human society in which families are unconscious of the basic law of creation that no soul has the right to oppress, coerce, and withhold freedom from another soul - ends up being filled with badly emotionally crippled people who can barely function. So I encourage you to completely free your spirit: give them your Truth by the bucket full.

Let them them know what was done that hurt you and what you ask of them today. And let them know that their very humanity is at stake. Because how we treat a family member is mission critical.

Blessings and don’t allow yourself to be stifled tat all. Turn the tables on the manipulator dad and demand that he get real now with you, his daughter. G-d commands parents to teach their children a True Spiritual Path: that of honesty, integrity, faith and the courage to be true to one’s Authentic Self. Dialogue with him about what he needs to do to free himself from his own inner shackles.

The BS is all over now as far as I am concerned. The only families worth building and sustaining are the one’s in which the human spirit can flourish. You can lead the entire train that is your family to - redemption. Just stick to your guns and stand up for your Truth. Don’t do what I did for 30 years: go into hiding and play it safe at home.

Love,

Hannah Porat